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Saturday, May 30, 2009

Smart Dating




Dating is about finding the best fit in a relationship. It's about finding the one who we can create a life with.

We’ve been led to believe that dating is about finding the perfect man. It's not. It’s not even about finding our soulmate. It’s not about stumbling upon Prince Charming. It is simply about DISCOVERING more about ourselves through being in a relationship with others. It’s about BRINGING OUT THE BEST in ourselves and others. The more we love, the more we succeed.

Come to think of it. Really, it’s not about getting the greatest looking guy, or the richest guy, or the guy that every other girl wants. It’s about finding the guy who makes us the best TEAMMATE in our journey through life. But to get a great teammate, we’ve got to be good team players ourselves. And to be a team player, we’ve got to learn how to work WITH him … not AGAINST him nor FOR him.

What do you think?


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